Month: September 2017

Security Attachment and Boundaries

“Healthy boundaries protect without isolating, contain without imprisoning, and preserve identity while permitting external connections. Good boundaries make good neighbors. “ Anne Katherine, M.A. “Boundaries. Where You End and I Begin” SECURITY ATTACHMENT AND BOUNDARIES Walking around Port Townsend last weekend my wife picked…

The Honesty Place

To be truthfully emotional, I need a place to release my honesty. It is not all science and logic up in here. I house fear, bigger than my nightmares, and I house panic under that fearful emotion. I should start with my boundaries. One…

Ohms and Oms

This blog is my brain’s central nervous system reacting, through electrical impulses that reside within my being. My energy paths need some rewiring. I do not have an answer to my narcissism, but I will now attempt to make a map of my brain….

Psychosomatic

Psychosomatic. Broken down this means psyche of the mind, soma meaning body. The idea behind psychosomatic reaction is that it is a disorder in which the mind and body are not communicating in proper order. Mental factors such as environmental stress create anxiety, which…

Control and Security

I stated before that in order to be in a secure relationship one must be secure with themselves. My boasting about my new found acceptance of my wife’s actions was a beautiful display of complete…….bullshit. Oh yes! She’s just full of love and I…

Carmen-Trust and Attachment- #1

Trust and attachment go hand in hand. If secure attachment is the goal then, one must literally feel secure with whom they choose to attach. Otherwise, it’s inevitable that we will only become more deeply engrossed in the paradigm of the opposite…. detachment. Last…

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