Month: August 2017

Peggy-A Room with a View-#4

Last we talked, we spoke about the Beast in more derogatory terms. The Beast is not all reaction; you have to look past the Beast, to the mechanism of Defense. Defense is not always unnecessary or extreme in Beast ways. Sometimes the Beast, when…

Peggy-B**ch and MotherF***er#3

    Batch and Motherfunner? Nope. I have many figures and diagrams to show you this week based on attachment and how we regulate our affections and the trend/patterns there within. Below, the secure and dismissive attachment styles based on a formula to predict…

Peggy-The Beast; A Caring Guide#2

Emotion.  Is procrastination considered an emotion? I would like to speak today about the Beast. The Beast “Emotion”.  Or to be completely specific, emotion unchecked with logic. When emotion convinces you that it is in fact logic, you can FEEL anger, you can FEEL…

Peggy-Logic one. Won?#1

Attachment theory, which was initially studied as experiments by Psychologists’’ Ainsworth and Bowlby, were primarily directed at infant and caregiver in the 1960’s and 70’s. The 1980’s arrived to find that the same principle of attachment applied to humans throughout their lifespan, and was…

Almost Home

On the eve of our last night of being professional campers (homeless), I cannot seem to decompress. Last night, Carlton and I talked about the entire ordeal, what we learned, what we would have done differently, and what we are thankful for. Our community…

All Good Things Must End

We make room for the new beginning here. Beginnings are not a stranger, and I should be a professional beginner by now, instead of learning an important lesson. You cannot heal the hurt inside your partner, nor can they heal you. I read books,…

Downsizing and Free Falling

I have bad news. The beach is an illusion. The expectation, to be fair, of what the beach and waters will give us is set unreasonably high. Some days, the tide gives and the current swells perfectly. Most days the wind prevails blowing sand…

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